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Being polite is a privilege.<\/p>
Some people have never even heard of 'nonviolent communication', 'I-messaging', 'listen-looping', 'conflict resolution', 'transformative justice', etc.<\/p>
These people often don't not have loads of progressive friends, stable jobs, caring parents, etc.<\/p>
Please bear that in mind when someone who has it worse than you says something mean or whatever, because they might just be expressing themselves the best way they can. Work with the emotion, not the words.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:status.net,2009:notice-source:ostatus","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"ostatus"}},"id":"https:\/\/chaos.social\/users\/hexmasteen\/statuses\/102495890438111413\/activity","object":{"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/douginamug\/statuses\/102495879519058220","objectType":"note","content":"
Being polite is a privilege.<\/p>
Some people have never even heard of 'nonviolent communication', 'I-messaging', 'listen-looping', 'conflict resolution', 'transformative justice', etc.<\/p>
These people often don't not have loads of progressive friends, stable jobs, caring parents, etc.<\/p>
Please bear that in mind when someone who has it worse than you says something mean or whatever, because they might just be expressing themselves the best way they can. Work with the emotion, not the words.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@douginamug\/102495879519058220","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:mastodon.xyz,2019-07-24:objectId=42724161:objectType=Conversation","notice_info":{"local_id":"864738","source":"ostatus","repeat_of":"864739"}},"published":"2019-07-24T10:12:51+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Jonkman Microblog","url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/"},"title":"hexmasteen repeated a notice by douginamug","verb":"share","url":"https:\/\/chaos.social\/@hexmasteen\/102495890438111413"},{"actor":{"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/douginamug","displayName":"Doug Webb","status_net":{"avatarLinks":[{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/avatar\/2204-original-20200227190611.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":120,"height":120},{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/avatar\/2204-96-20200227203110.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":96,"height":96},{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/avatar\/2204-48-20200227194455.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":48,"height":48},{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/avatar\/2204-24-20200227224324.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":24,"height":24}],"profile_info":{"local_id":"2204"}},"image":{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/avatar\/2204-96-20200227203110.jpeg","rel":"avatar","type":"image\/jpeg","width":96,"height":96},"objectType":"person","summary":"Member of Kanthaus, \ud83c\udfe0 a common house in \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea https:\/\/kanthaus.online Current focus: score voting \u27a1\ufe0f coop & commons governance \u2696\ufe0f Glad to be here with you \ud83c\udf0d","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@douginamug","portablecontacts_net":{"preferredUsername":"douginamug","displayName":"Doug Webb","note":"Member of Kanthaus, \ud83c\udfe0 a common house in \ud83c\udde9\ud83c\uddea https:\/\/kanthaus.online Current focus: score voting \u27a1\ufe0f coop & commons governance \u2696\ufe0f Glad to be here with you \ud83c\udf0d"}},"content":"
Being polite is a privilege.<\/p>
Some people have never even heard of 'nonviolent communication', 'I-messaging', 'listen-looping', 'conflict resolution', 'transformative justice', etc.<\/p>
These people often don't not have loads of progressive friends, stable jobs, caring parents, etc.<\/p>
Please bear that in mind when someone who has it worse than you says something mean or whatever, because they might just be expressing themselves the best way they can. Work with the emotion, not the words.<\/p>","generator":{"id":"tag:gs.jonkman.ca,2024-03-29:notice-source:share","objectType":"application","status_net":{"source_code":"share"}},"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/douginamug\/statuses\/102495879519058220","object":{"id":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/users\/douginamug\/statuses\/102495879519058220","objectType":"note","content":"
Being polite is a privilege.<\/p>
Some people have never even heard of 'nonviolent communication', 'I-messaging', 'listen-looping', 'conflict resolution', 'transformative justice', etc.<\/p>
These people often don't not have loads of progressive friends, stable jobs, caring parents, etc.<\/p>
Please bear that in mind when someone who has it worse than you says something mean or whatever, because they might just be expressing themselves the best way they can. Work with the emotion, not the words.<\/p>","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@douginamug\/102495879519058220","status_net":{"notice_id":null}},"to":[{"objectType":"http:\/\/activitystrea.ms\/schema\/1.0\/collection","id":"http:\/\/activityschema.org\/collection\/public"}],"status_net":{"conversation":"tag:mastodon.xyz,2019-07-24:objectId=42724161:objectType=Conversation","notice_info":{"local_id":"864739","source":"share"}},"published":"2019-07-24T10:10:05+00:00","provider":{"objectType":"service","displayName":"Jonkman Microblog","url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/"},"verb":"post","url":"https:\/\/mastodon.xyz\/@douginamug\/102495879519058220"}],"links":[{"url":"https:\/\/gs.jonkman.ca\/conversation\/416593","rel":"alternate","type":"text\/html"}]}