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Notices by einebiene (einebiene@quitter.is), page 127
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Ha! Sweeties, I'm back again. After saying good morning, my internet and telephone went dead. It was very lonely, I missed you all.
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Good morning :-) First today!
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Yeah, I like that, too. :-) I only followed the first part and was off for a while then. And don't think about it too much. I might get angry fast with something like this but now all is good again and now I could just ignore the threat if it was still necessary. The answers of other people mostly don't federate to me. But I think this is actually the first time I actually stated this point and it made it more clear to myself, too, so thanks for the opportunity. :-)
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It wasn't against you personally, I just feared you might take it that way. I'm not blaming you. :-) It's the topic that made me lash out, and it's up to me to do something, I could change to a mastodon account for the cws but it doesn't happen so often and I kind of like it here. Mostly I'm ok with this. Thanks for offering though. And of courese there's enough good reasons to talk about this topic! I just wanted to make this point and I wish I could have made it in a better manner. Sorry.
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For me this isn't even about food in itself. For me this is about visible weight gain/loss or talking about it and people barging in unasked and telling me their wisdom on my body/mind, on both sides. When people see me and say. "Oh you're losing weight, thats great, you look so much better..." or they say "But it's not so bad to be big and diets are bad and part of patriarchy" or something. I don't care about either thing at that moment.I mostly care about myself. And everybody seems to have a comment on it. For me there's hardly an unemotional way to talk about it/just be. The whole discussion makes me angry, on both sides and I have had it for years. People saying big people shouldn't diet are just as oppressive to me as people who say they should, as long as it is not for actual factual reasons (like medical reasons).
I hope it is more clear now? I'm angry about this so I might not have gotten it straight.
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that was the second toot, yes. Something doesn't seem to work so well on quitter.is at the moment, so maybe it didn't federate to you?
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I hope that didn't come off as offensive. To me the losing weight/fatshaming discussion is not helpful at all.
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I am very big and besides all other struggles, it's either people who want me to lose weight who are "concerned" or people who don't want me to loose weight/do it without fat shaming that are concerned, so no matter what, I have the discussions, when I really just want to be left alone and don't want anyone to even comment on it.
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Wo?
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keine sorge, das ist ja eher wunschdenken. Der Winter war noch selten im Januar vorbei. ;-)
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@theru @tobias @morph @cat Moinmoin :-)
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Good morning! Ich hab schon Spitzen von Tulpen und Krokussen und son Zeug aus der Erde spitzeln sehen. Der Winter ist quasi schon vorbei.
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hmpf
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