So yesterday I mildly grumped at our sysadmin for being rather critical of a user who was having computer trouble. There's much nicer ways he could have said "you're doing it wrong".
He took it gracefully and nodded and agreed that, he was not in a great mood and he should not talk down to (l)users.
Then he thought for a moment, and said, (you must imagine a thick slavic accent) "Now I know why you are #debian user, you have soft heart. I am #openbsd user, so I am very cruel."
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