people don't talk about it so much because we live in an off kilter world, but The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas is, among many things, a strong meditation on nonaggregationist ethics
Taurek wrote about it in the 70s in a paper, but it's not often someone puts it to you seriously and with love in mind
it's not an easy read (CW death, torture, abuse), but it's an important one that you might resonate with