@Elizafox hmm that is a bit of a disconnect. I'm not sure as a cis person if I can offer anything truly valuable to the discussion but it does seem odd to me when someone who has been marginalised themselves exhibits intolerance of diversity.
I have seen the opposite though, where a transgendered person who is unwilling or prepared to "fully transition" physically is is not fully accepted as the gender they identify as, like they are NB and don't "fully belong"...I don't understand...