yes
yes
yes
this is what i have been wanting to say
and it applies to all subcultures
not just the LBTQIA community
cause that was what it was like to be different in a place that wasn't a real city back in my day
the pain is universal and real
Sassafras says it so much better than me
https://olderqueervoices.com/2017/01/29/we-know-how-to-do-this-by-sassafras-lowrey/