@shellkr @nev there are many, many, many ways to express feelings without being a creep. and there are, sadly, no shortage of people who don't understand that.
when i am doing engineering work, i am an engineer. i collaborate with other engineers in a professional, respectful manner. we're building the best possible software here, and we do that by having the best possible engineers working on things. we attract and keep them by creating a culture of respect.