If it gets you real fired up that matsoc/hugbox instances are blocking you for no reason, the best thing you can do about it is to work to make the free side of the fediverse more fun by posting the best memes (or contribute to pleroma). The worst thing you can do is make bitter subposts about it or let it effect your mood.

It is SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN that there is no motivating factor more powerful than the Fear Of Missing Out.