current pet hate #1532345 bi guys who are in the closet. I find it dehumanising, when a potential hookup starts saying, "I won't meet you in a social space - 'cos no-one know about my bi side".

Even without bothering to unpick the "gender/sex" mess that #trans makes of all this - Who the hell do they think they are policing who can talk to who in public space. Quite happy to send messages describing all sorts of sexual beaviours, but too scared to sit at a table in a cafe and drink coffee with another human being.

Of course it's because I'm not actually human in their eyes.