Having seen a friend's wishlist on Amazon, I bought a gift at an independent local store. There used to be a 'buying this elsewhere' link, but I can't find it. Earlier today I bought a gift for her (from same indie store) that LATER was marked on her wishlist as purchased. I don't want some poor soul to suffer what I did. Did Amazon remove the 'buying this elsewhere' link from the item page or the wishlist? Need direction or confirmation.