Poor people don't need you to feel sorry for them.
They don't need to be reminded how people should be paying them and aren't.
They don't need to hear about how unfair anything is.
They don't need to hear how if they lived in your country they wouldn't be poor and would have health care.
They don't need compliments.
They don't need advice.
They don't need you to feel anything for them.
They need money.