if you're part of some kind of community (like a discord server) is it bad form to invite a new user without asking other members if they know them/are okay with having a new person join? just in case they have bad history, or someone might feel uncomfortable around a new person and unable to say the things they really want to
i guess the answer might differ between "close friend group discord" and "random internet stranger discord" though i guess the one i run is kinda both?