Conversation

part one:

using people dealing with their own shit as examples when they mess up isn't community building, and it's not really self-care either.

this is *not* the same as saying someone isn't right about shit!

i repeat:

*not* the same thing!

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/guide-to-calling-in/

if shit is too much take a step back

if people aren't call-inable, that's what muting is for.

"but they should know"

that's the whole point: they don't.

/part one