Stealing from https://twitter.com/davidgerard/status/1022205052856020992:
"Entertaining straight people is a low priority for millennial queers. Not one of my gay male friends has ever done my eye-makeup or taken me shopping. Instead they taught me how to wash pepper spray out of my eyes and converted me to communism."
https://thebaffler.com/latest/the-queer-art-of-failing-better-penny