during foreplay one of my exes would often say "i love your volumptuous body" and every time i would think "oh my god he said volumptuous again but id be a jerk to correct him now so ill just keep it to myself" and then i wouldnt be able to stop being annoyed about it and in my effort to keep pretending to not care i always lost all arousal whatsoever. his mangled phrasing literally prevented me from having orgasms. u could say i had correctile dysfunction.