I'm thinking I should try to avoid The Discourseโข, at least when it doesn't directly involve me or my instance ("mine" in the sense of the one I'm on; I don't host anything).
The whole wilw thing is largely based on innuendo and rumours -- nothing I saw really made one side or the other seem more "true" -- so I probably shouldn't have bothered to comment on it, as an outsider.
I still feel weird about how it was handled, but still lack too many details to really comment fairly.