By the way, HUGE shout out for the masochistic lunatics willing to step in and moderate any forum. They are the goal keepers and referees the fans love to hate. Their job is thankless, grueling and joyless.
I don't always agree with their decisions, but it's their forum. They set the tone. If they want to run it like a Jerry Springer show or the Harvard Debate Club, that's up to them. I'm always free to move on at any time. (See "Sunk Cost Fallacy")