@ChillJill It's good that your are very caring, the world is a fucked up place full of depressing shit, we need more people who give a damn about their fellow human. However you can't fix everyone all the time.
I tried to do that, and got burn a lot. By 23 I was a bitter asshole who didn't give a shit about anyone and loved Schadenfreude like a hard drug.
I forgot were I was going with this, just don't do what I did.