"It's just a bit of cleavage." is not something that I would want to hear when I'm looking for a potential partner. Persistence to see an image of my breasts is also not something I want to hear. Pressuring in this manner is such a turn off. Especially when I've indicated that I'm not that type of person.

I get the appeal and desire though. I just don't want to be asked for such an image... and made to feel like my concerns are dismissed as nothing. If you can't even listen to me about something as big as this then I don't know what to say... we're not compatible. I never did talk to that guy after that discussion died down...