And yes, that is definitely a trope I've seen in other FPS games.
I'm mostly playing Warframe because people I know IRL keep prodding me about it.
I'm much more at home playing Stellaris, Civilization V, Cities: Skylines, The Sims, Skyrim/Oblivion, X-COM: Enemy Unknown, etc.
I now mostly just play FPS games during LAN parties. The last time I played them in anger Halo: Reach was a thing.