I haven't covered everything... just what I can think of from the top of my head. These are all things that can be worked on and improved that I've mentioned thus far. At least, for most people.

I like it when men are being men. I can't begin to tell you how much I admire men in general. How much I'm attracted to men. That there is no reason to be ashamed to be a man. That it repulses me that we live in a society that doesn't truly appreciate men and tries to destroy them. That paints masculinity as toxic. This is not the message that I want my son or my husband to internalise. Or any male in my life, whether family, friend or stranger. 
At my heart, I want to see masculinity nourished. To build up and nurture. I don't want men to think that I want to destroy them, but they will believe what they believe about women. And part of that truly is the fault of women that attempt to destroy men and send this message out. That there are sections of feminism or other ideals that do the same. The responsibility does lie there for their part.