i wish there were gift exchanges limited to the choosy and particular 'i want to give you a gift certain to please you AND I want to receive a gift certain to please me' people who delight in sharing their wishlists. People whose extra-sensory 'energy-reading' batteries are dead would benefit. "Anything is fine' is not fine: "Oh here's one sock and a 1971 Archie Comics 'Mad House' issue" is not fine.