after looking into it a bit and finding out that one of the (the?) lead pleroma devs is actually actively working on doing a safety and shit like freespeechextremist still slurping up posts it sees has more to do with ActivtyPub being designed by white dude dipshits in the first place, im probably not going to block pleromas because its not really pleroma thats the problem, its activitypub
that being said, there's a couple of actionable items: