@rice @thatbrickster I saw your photo through bricky mentioning his tl. I wanted to say you looked good there from what I saw, I don't think you need to transition and take testorone. But I can understand the feeling or desire to do so, and the choice is yours. It is something I would like to discuss with you further when I can. I am just starting to realise how similar we are and this is something I have felt myself. I really like the look, and might feel more confident/comfortable but I don't know that I would transition nor that it is necessary for me, personally. I do feel torn. I want to be a mother.