Tbh beside selfhosting it I feel like this wide fediverse isn't really better than Twitter or something like that, on the social-pressure/alienating side of social network.
Ya still have the feeling to be bond to many persons, yet it's a very fragile connection...
So you feel really inconfortable / walking on eggs / don't want to lose you dopamine spike of likes/boosts yet get exhausted by trying to maintain your bond.
Social networking is a full-time job even virtually...