the saddest thing to me is when other trans guys bully and condition themselves until they've learned to act exactly like cis men.
We get screwed over in so many aspects because we're trans and yet we're throwing away one of our few virtues: being socialized from birth to be empathetic and compassionate toward others. "but its feminine!" my dudes if kindness and genuine connection to others is unequivocally feminine (which it isnt) i never want to be masculine. And being feminine doesn't make you less of a man anyway.
Don't drink the cis masculinity koolaid my dudes. Stay gold trans boy.