@CobaltVelvet I don't play multiplayer games much, though when I played Xonotic / Red Eclipse I did see this happen to anyone in rare times they dared present as a woman.
I did speak up when I saw it, though I got kicked from servers for being a "white knight" for saying anything. I know it's a lot more distressing for anyone suffering actual harassment all the time.
Sorry humanity sucks, gaming culture particularly. I hope things can get better though I'm not as optimistic as I used to be.