from facebook, the realness https://vulpine.club/media/yHLHy4NiE51li3Wzx_k
"How many trans people does it take to change a lightbulb?
Just one. But you have to sit in the dark for a year to prove it's really out, endure constant questioning from parents and friends asking if you couldn't just get used to the dark, because it's so much easier, and you need two letters from electricians (at least one of whom must hold a PhD) confirming that you know the risks of changing a lightbulb."