"I like the idea of a world where people say 'normal' like it's an insult."
What? No. I do not like this idea. I feel like it would just encourage people to have things wrong with them and it would make things a lot more difficult to diagnose when something is wrong. That is the opposite of what we want or need. How can we get extra support for things that are different to the norm/expected if it is an insult to be normal?