Björn Schießle 🌍 🇪🇺@JayVii_de mailbox,org and posteo.de would be my number one recommendation. You have to pay for them but you can get it already for 1€/month. As you know, privacy friendly and for free doesn't work together. Nobody can run servers for free, so you have to pay, either with your data or with your money.
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