"2. No flexibility. (Women will not change their lifestyle to let a man in. They expect a man to change his life to fit into hers.)"
I'm not sure this one really follows. Often, women have gone where the men go, and tried to fit in. They have tried doing things with him out of the ordinary, out of their comfort zone. I think this goes both ways, especially because you feel nervous and want to impress your date on both sides. 
But even later on, when you love someone. I catch myself trying to fit time in together, and making other things fit in around that allocated time because it is more important to me to be with the man I love. 
Although I will admit that there is a case for women that will try to change their men rather than themselves, especially if the men are dysfunctional. They want to be that woman who reforms the bad boy that sleeps around. Or they will have a problem when their guy changes too much, and can no longer recognise him. It's important to have realistic expectations here. I don't assume I will reform the bad boys, I leave them to it with other women... and I also realise that we all gradually change over time. It truly is something to grow old with someone and learn to accept them as they are while also still holding good standards.