We have this popular brand of exceptionalism in the mainstream right now, where it's alright to hate on people of certain races as long as it's the *wrong* race, or of people certain genders as long as it's *wrong* gender.  This is still racism and this is still sexism.  If we allow them to go unchecked, then it's only a matter of time before *you're* the wrong race or the wrong gender, and you're out.  This creates cycles of internal conflict in the populace, which while certainly helpful for cretinous people like Trump and Theresa May to stay in power, has no place with people who lay claim to being empathetic and understanding.