@nik Sounds like something I would have said when I was in high school. I think this comes from having a very information-focused approach to conversation--at least it was in my case. I still tend to lean towards that, but there are so many more things to get out of a conversation. Most of the time people are just not going to share serious thoughts outside of a situation of trust and comfort, and all are very unlikely to have thought about every single thing deeply.