@coleoptera This is an ongoing (and I suspect will always be ongoing) issue with my cishet male partner. He will do the thing, but he doesn’t *think* to do the thing. Laundry? Sure. If I ask him, though he puts his dirty clothes in the same hamper I do and sees when it’s overflowing; sleeps in the same bed for a week but doesn’t think to strip and wash the sheets; uses the same hand towel in the bathroom but doesn’t think to change it.