Now, that I got some experience using video call software for calls from Germany to Vietnam:
Wire: Can't recommend. It works fine in Germany / Europa and probably for the USA. But connections to Vietnam get lost a lot and are distorted.
Nextcloud Talk: Forget it.
Jitsi Meet for Android: Works quite well with minor connectivity issues, but smartphone gets hot, drains battery quickly.
The Open Source solution that I was looking for: Not existent.