Every time I see someone use "snowflake" as an insult, I want to remind them that Tyler Durden wasn't a good guy or a good person, and that when he told Project Mayhem "you are not a beautiful and unique snowflake" he was deliberately dehumanizing his victims to brainwash them into being in his cult.
So, sure, if you want to act like a cultist devoted to a homicidal villain, you go right ahead. Just be aware that's what you're doing.