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@scarlettablack Psychology has consistently found that people are above all situational, so maybe if the idea of "who I am" is to be useful it needs to come with a situational qualifier. "I am/was the kind of person who spray-paints hate in public WHEN I let peer pressure get the better of my principles." The part that comes after the "when" is something they can learn from. It's certainly more honest and helpful than just "That's not me!"