This thread by @werekat with an algorithm for how to respond if you're being sanctioned for norms violation in your social group is AMAZINGLY GOOD STUFF :mastolove:
https://mastodon.acc.sunet.se/users/werekat/statuses/102174331001984795
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Came across a post on callout culture in my friends feed, and since I am in a writey state of mind, decided to do a longread on that: specifically - on being made nervous by callouts. So this is going to be a thread.
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