@stackingstones How does all of this apply in a purely textual medium? In my experience, masking isn't nearly as necessary, or can be approached at a leisurely pace (because it's email/blogposts/etc.) so it's far less draining. But it can still be emotional state-blind, or conversely, emotional state-overloaded, which can lead to...challenging impulsive behaviour. Behaviour everyone regrets afterwards. Still not sure how to deal with this.