Allosexuals see aceness as some kind of constant sexual rejection to a question that was never posed, and might not have been posed even if they didn't know we were ace, and even then, despite being ace, some of us would say yes
Allosexuals get angry w/ace folks b/c they see us as not manipulatable in the way other allosexuals are and it scares them
Our existence is an indictment of the shitty way allosexuals tend to relate to each other, and TBH, good