we're still annoyed that people on here frame them as being the same thing, as if someone having a meltdown is just "bad" or "doing that for attention" or "spoiled" or whatever, because they're white and disabled.
it's like being at an Autism Speaks conference. good luck having a cross-community discussion.
you wouldn't say that (i hope) to someone having a panic attack, so i fail to see how this is any different, in effect.
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