and like, the whole reason i'm angry about it is because you've like, shown the ability to have cognizant thought about your own actions and you're either intentionally refusing to understand that this is how i actually see it, or that what you did wasn't somehow just extremely fucked up in some way, or you are just so deep into your own shit that you've not made the connection yet.

yeah, some of what they say about pleroma might be true, but every project has flawed community management in some way. and it doesn't matter, because it's just deflection in this case.