I've talked before about how telling kids about queerness of whatever flavor is not at all a big deal. That to some adults, these things feel mind blowing and like they're upsetting something about the world they thought was a constant. But for kids, it's just yet another thing they didn't know about. Which is a vast majority of things, for kids. So it's not a big deal to discover one more.
Knowing this, my friend told me this great story: