i wish i could reverse engineer all the stuff that i've read, seen, and experienced that lead to me holding the beliefs i now do
like, make a "so you're a cishet (or you think so) white person in america, and here's how you can learn to understand race, sex, gender, capitalism, colonialism, and generally how to be more aware of your own assumptions" guide
not that i'm like some righteous pinnacle of enlightenment but it's been a long path and i wish i knew how to get people started, gently