1: Framing polite, reasonable requests as harassment. (see: the GIMP name debacle)
2: Framing critique as harassment. (see: anyone who takes a notion to suck up all the fediverse to mine for interesting tidbits)
3: Framing asking for different phrasing as censorship.
4: Framing boundaries as censorship.
5: Refusing to listen to vulnerable people when they say a planned feature will open avenues to cause harm.