@the_gayest_doggo let's see how the same logic is employed by islamophobes:
"For example, this is why no one should be forced to be tolerant of Muslims. You cannot logically expect a group of largely queer people (such as the fediverse) to tolerate people who are violently anti-queer."
Here's an example in the wild:
https://politichicks.com/2019/09/daniel-greenfield-when-muslims-oppress-gays-its-the-fault-of-the-jews/