Last point, placing the onus of your healing and your betterment on strangers that you don't know?? and also don't have a role in THEIR healing and their betterment, but expect them to provide labor for you just bc you said so??
Nah. I have enough ppl asking me to placate their anxieties just by being alive black and indigenous.
that is not how healing works.
you work, i work, we all work. but its not my job to carry you. esp since you wont carry me.