There will never be a point where I will be nice to bigots.
As long as they enable harm and entertain the most ignorant and absurd biases against me and people like me, we will never find common ground.
I don't care they dress up there words, bend over backwards to appear nice or blather about finding 'common ground'
As long as one is friendly with ideologies and people that think it's ok to harm people like me, fuck common ground.
If that make me the bad guy, then so be it.