>no flirting, only marriage
Ok you're my wife now, here's the vows you will say at church.

"I love you, $husband and I know that you love me. Because of this I desire to be your wife. For _ years I have prayed that God would lead me to His choice and I am confident that His will is being fulfilled tonight. Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future I promise to be faithful to you. I will love, serve, and obey you as long as we both are alive. Christ told us that the wife must submit herself unto her own husband as unto the Lord. For as Christ is Head of His Church so is the husband head of his wife. $husband, I submit myself to you."

https://bible.org/article/sample-wedding-vows