Here's your problem, you think "it used to be all the women's fault and responsibility" even though it still is the dominant philosophy regarding pregnancy (not even just unwanted ones), especially in the US where prominent lawmakers are still publicly supporting this sexist stance.

But beyond that, if you still haven't read the rest of the thread because of a slightly inaccurate claim (it isn't 100%, closer to 99%, granted), then you are exactly like these men who can't bother with a condom because they only get 8/10 on the sexual intercourse pleasure scale.

What I see is that the mildest personal intellectual inconvenience makes you reject a whole thread and that you consider yourself representative enough that you believe it would somehow hurt the cause while people are physically picketing family planning facilities to shame women frequenting them.

It just doesn't compare. Get a grip.